If you’ve ever searched for how to improve your riding, you’ve probably come across the same advice time and time again.

They’re all well-intentioned instructions, and in the right context they can be useful. But for many riders, they also become one of the most frustrating parts of learning to ride.

The reason is simple.

Most riders already know what good posture is supposed to look like.

They know where their shoulders should be. They know they shouldn’t collapse through one side or round their back. They know they should sit tall rather than fold forwards.

The problem isn’t knowing what to do.

The problem is being able to keep doing it once the horse starts moving.

That’s why so many riders find themselves caught in the same cycle. They hear the correction, they immediately adjust their position, everything feels better for a few moments… and then, almost without noticing, the old position gradually returns.

The body slowly settles back into the same organisation it has adopted hundreds of times before.

Eventually, many riders stop questioning the instruction and start questioning themselves.

– “Maybe I’m just weak.”

– “Perhaps I don’t have enough core strength.”

– “Maybe I simply don’t have good posture.”

It’s an understandable conclusion to reach, but it often isn’t the right one.

Learning how to improve your riding isn’t simply about holding yourself in a better position. It’s about understanding why your body keeps returning to the same position in the first place.

Good riding posture isn’t a position you hold.

It’s something your body has to recreate continuously while the horse is moving underneath you.

That single idea changes the way we should think about posture completely.

When most people think about posture, they picture standing still.

Perhaps they’re imagining standing in front of a mirror, sitting upright at a desk, or lining their ears, shoulders, hips and heels into one neat vertical line. In all of those situations, the body organises itself once and then only has to make relatively small adjustments to remain balanced.

Horse riding asks something entirely different.

The moment your horse takes a step, your posture is no longer fixed. Your pelvis begins responding to movement every stride. Your spine subtly reorganises to maintain balance. Your ribcage rotates, your hips absorb force, and your centre of gravity is constantly changing as the horse moves beneath you.

Even during a relaxed walk, your body is making hundreds of small adjustments every minute without you consciously thinking about them.

As the pace increases, so does the demand.

Transitions require quicker organisation. Sitting trot increases the amount of force travelling through the pelvis and spine. Circles change how your body manages balance. Lateral work asks each side of the body to contribute differently. Every movement places slightly different demands on your ability to remain organised while still allowing the horse to move freely underneath you.

That is why many riders can appear beautifully balanced in halt but struggle to maintain exactly the same position once movement increases.

They haven’t forgotten what good posture looks like. 

– The task itself has changed.

Maintaining posture while sitting still and maintaining posture while managing continuous movement are two completely different physical skills.

Understanding that difference is one of the biggest steps towards understanding how to improve your riding, because it shifts the focus away from trying harder and towards understanding what your body is actually being asked to do.

Finding your position is one skill. Sustaining it while the horse is moving is another.

Those two abilities are often mistaken for the same thing, yet they rely on very different physical qualities.

Horse riding works in much the same way.

Every stride requires the body to absorb force, maintain balance, control breathing, coordinate the limbs independently and keep the pelvis following the horse without allowing the upper body to lose organisation.

That’s an extraordinary amount of work.

Visually, that may improve posture for a short period of time.

Functionally, however, nothing underneath has necessarily changed.

If the body cannot repeatedly manage the movement demands being placed upon it, it will gradually return to the organisation it already knows.

Not because the rider has stopped trying.

But because the body is always looking for the most familiar way to manage the task in front of it.

One of the biggest misconceptions in riding is that the habits we develop in the saddle are conscious choices.

In reality, many of them are learned over months or years without us ever noticing.

Think about how often your body has been asked to solve a problem while riding.

Perhaps you lost your balance during a transition and instinctively gripped with your knees. Maybe your horse became sharp, so you tightened through your hips before every upward transition. Perhaps sitting trot felt uncomfortable, so you unknowingly started bracing through your lower back because it felt more secure than allowing your pelvis to move.

Those strategies weren’t necessarily taught. – They were learned.

Your body discovered a way of creating enough stability to complete the task, and because it worked, it quietly repeated it the next time.

Instruction can contribute as well.

Many riders respond to these instructions in the only way they know how. They reduce movement instead of improving the quality of movement. They become stiffer because stiffness feels more secure. They hold their breath because it creates a sense of control. They grip with their thighs because, in that moment, it makes them feel more stable in the saddle.

At first, these strategies can appear to work. The rider may look quieter, feel more secure, or even receive positive feedback because the visible symptom has improved. The problem is that the body doesn’t distinguish between a temporary solution and an efficient one. If a particular strategy helps achieve the outcome, even briefly, it is likely to be repeated the next time the rider faces the same challenge.

This also explains why so many riders describe feeling comfortable during the first ten minutes of a lesson before everything gradually becomes harder.

At the beginning of the ride, the body is fresh. It can organise movement efficiently, maintain balance more easily and cope with the demands being placed upon it.

As the ride progresses, however, those demands continue.

Every transition, every corner, every change of pace and every stride requires the body to keep reorganising itself.

Eventually, fatigue begins influencing how efficiently that organisation can be maintained.

The smaller muscles responsible for fine control begin contributing less effectively. Breathing often becomes shallower. Coordination becomes less precise. Rather than maintaining smooth, efficient movement, the body starts looking for larger muscles that can take over.

This is when riders often notice the thighs becoming tighter, the shoulders beginning to lift, the lower back working harder or the pelvis feeling less able to follow the horse naturally.

Unfortunately, that often creates even more stiffness.

The rider now feels as though they are fighting both themselves and the horse.

Stability and stiffness are not the same thing.

That’s why some riders feel exhausted after trying to “sit correctly” for an entire lesson.

They’re not simply riding. They’re constantly managing themselves.

The irony is that the riders who often look the quietest in the saddle aren’t necessarily trying the hardest.

Their bodies have simply developed more efficient ways of organising movement.

Good posture becomes something that emerges naturally from good movement rather than something that has to be consciously manufactured every stride.

That is a very different way of thinking about how to improve your riding.

Instead of asking:

The question becomes:

👉 That subtle change shifts the focus from appearance to function, and from force to coordination.

If you’re genuinely looking for how to improve your riding, it’s worth remembering that your position is not the starting point.

Your position is the result.

It reflects how well your body manages movement, balance, stability and coordination while responding to the horse underneath you.

When those systems work well together, good posture becomes easier to maintain.

When they don’t, the body naturally falls back on the movement strategies it knows best, whether that’s gripping, bracing, collapsing or becoming rigid.

This is why rider-specific training is so different from simply becoming fitter.

It’s not about building stronger muscles for the sake of it.

It’s about improving the body’s ability to organise movement under the unique demands of riding.

That means developing postural endurance, pelvic control, coordination, breathing, balance and movement awareness in a way that directly transfers to the saddle.

Because ultimately, riding isn’t a static sport.

It’s a continuous conversation between your body and your horse.

The better your body becomes at managing movement, the easier good posture becomes.

Being told to “sit taller” isn’t completely wrong.

It’s simply incomplete.

Without understanding what your body is actually trying to achieve underneath that instruction, posture becomes something you continually chase rather than something you naturally develop.

The next time you hear that familiar correction, remember this:

Good riding posture isn’t about forcing your body into a position and hoping it stays there.

It’s about improving the way your body responds to movement, stride after stride, until maintaining that position becomes less about effort and more about organisation.

That’s one of the most important shifts any rider can make.

Because learning how to improve your riding isn’t about trying harder.

It’s about understanding your body well enough that it no longer needs to fight the movement beneath you.

Rather than simply telling you what to do, it helps you understand why your body behaves the way it does. Once you understand that, improving your riding becomes a logical process instead of a constant cycle of corrections.

👉 Join my mailing list and access the How I Assess Riders video, where I break down exactly what I look for and how these patterns show up before they ever appear in the saddle.

Because once you understand the cause…you stop trying to fix the symptom.

And that’s when real progress begins.

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If your position won’t stay in the saddle, it rarely feels dramatic. It’s often subtle, inconsistent, and difficult to explain.

You can find your position, correct it, sit taller, steady your hands, and organise your body into what you know it should look like. For a moment, everything feels right. But then it begins to slip. Not completely, but just enough to notice. Your balance shifts, your body tightens, and something no longer feels as stable as it did seconds before.

This is where frustration starts to build, because it doesn’t make sense. You know what you’re trying to achieve. You’ve been given the instructions, and you’re actively trying to apply them. Yet your body won’t maintain it consistently. It feels like something you should be able to control, but can’t.

Most riders respond to this by assuming they need to do more:

• More focus
• More effort
• More correction
• More horse riding position exercises

The logic seems sound. If the position isn’t staying, then strengthening it or practising it more should solve the problem. So they try to hold the position for longer, think more about what their body is doing, and apply more effort to keep everything where it should be.

Your riding position is not something you create in the moment. It is something your body produces based on the movement patterns, stability, and coordination it already has available. When you sit in the saddle, you are not building your position from scratch. You are expressing what your body currently knows how to do.

This is why your position won’t stay, regardless of how much you think about it.

👉 Your body cannot maintain a position it does not have the capacity to support.

It may be able to find it briefly, especially when you are focused and the environment is controlled, but it cannot sustain it when the demand increases.

As soon as that demand changes — whether through:

• Transitions
• Balance adjustments
• Time in the saddle
• Subtle shifts in your horse’s movement

— your nervous system steps in.

It doesn’t choose what you are consciously trying to do.
👉 It chooses what feels most stable and reliable based on your existing patterns.

That is why your body defaults. Not randomly, and not because you are doing something wrong, but because it is selecting the most familiar and supported option available to it.

This is when you start to feel:

• The grip through your thighs
• The tension in your shoulders
• The collapse through one side
• The movement in your hands

These are not mistakes in the way most riders think of them.

👉 They are compensations your body is using to create stability.

👉 Effort does not create stability if the system underneath cannot support it.

Instead, it increases tension and reinforces the very patterns you are trying to change.

This is why progress can feel:

• Inconsistent
• Frustrating
• Or completely stalled

Even when you’re doing all the “right” things.

When you begin to understand this, the problem starts to make sense.

Your position isn’t failing because you’re not trying hard enough.
It’s not disappearing because you’re forgetting what to do.

👉 It’s changing because your body is responding to what it can currently manage.

That shift in understanding is important, because it changes the direction of improvement.

Instead of focusing on holding your position in the saddle, you start to look at:

• What is enabling it
• What is limiting it

You move away from trying to control the outcome and begin to develop the input.

This is where the right approach becomes effective.

Not as a way to force your body into a position…
…but as a way to build:

• Strength
• Coordination
• Control

👉 So your position can stay without effort.

When your body has the capacity to support the position, it no longer needs to be held in place.

It becomes your default.

If your position has never felt consistent, it doesn’t mean you are behind or that you are missing something obvious.

👉 It means your body is working exactly as it has been conditioned to.

Using the strategies it trusts most.

And those strategies can be changed — but only when you understand what is actually driving them.

If your position has never felt consistent, it doesn’t mean you are behind or that you are missing something obvious.

👉 It means your body is working exactly as it has been conditioned to, using the strategies it trusts most.

And those strategies can be changed — but only when you understand what is actually driving them.

👉 Join my mailing list and access the How I Assess Riders video, where I break down exactly what I look for and how these patterns show up before they ever appear in the saddle.

Because once you understand the cause…you stop trying to fix the symptom.

And that’s when real progress begins.

If you’re already on my mailing list and would like it resent, email me at clare@ridercise.co.uk and I’ll send it over.

Losing your confidence is something that many can’t grasp if they’ve never lost it. But it can and will affect nearly every one of us in one way or another. When we lose confidence in one area of our life, it affects our confidence in other areas.

Losing your confidence doesn’t necessarily come from having an incident in the saddle. It can occur when we have had a period out of the saddle, feedback from an instructor or individual, overhearing someone negatively talk about us, going through personal challenges and even suffering a fall at home or recovering from an illness or surgery.

As we get older, we are more likely to lose our confidence as we start to notice the signs of aging such as your hair going grey, getting wrinkles, hormone levels starting to diminish and play havoc with your moods, your outlook on life and maintain or losing weight becomes a battle. We also start to notice the things we could once do with great ease are no longer so easy.

All and any of these things affect our confidence.

When you lose your confidence, you become self critical and conscious of yourself. The way you move, feel, ride and look.

Whilst you may appear to be happy and content on the outside. The truth is. You’re not happy. You can be angry, frustrated, overwhelmed, sad and unsure of how to move forward.

Losing your confidence makes you unhappy. And not being happy limits your enjoyment of your horse, your riding and your life.

Seems simple but it’s incredibly challenging when you are not sure where to start or what to do. Having a plan, support and guidance and being realistic in the time it will take is key.

• Whatever you decide to do, whether it be to have coaching sessions, join a program or set yourself small manageable tasks. You must understand that it will take a minimum of 6 months to make real progress or you risk being back at square one.
• You should decide what you are going to do, how frequently you are going to do it and how long you will do it for. During that time, don’t change the approach. Stick with it. Give it time to work.

Examples: Hypnotherapy, NLP Sessions, Menopause Coaching, Going to the Gym/Class, Rehab Sessions with a Trainer, Having riding lessons on a school master, Join a Transformation program or simply setting yourself little tasks each week.

• Many of us feel that we don’t need help or are embarrassed to ask for help but there will be times when it feels like the world is against you and you feel low. Not having someone to listen and guide you is setting yourself up for failure.
• You will naturally think negatively of the progress you are making, instead of remembering and celebrating all the wins.
• Having support not only keeps you on plan and moving forward. It helps guide you, pick you up when you need it, drive you forward when you want to quit, and remind you just how far you’ve come.

• It takes time to gain confidence back, acknowledge that. It’s not going to be a week or a month. But if you are consistent and keep moving forward you will become the confident rider you want to be. You will find joy in being with and riding your horse.
• You will have a more positive outlook on life.
• You will be happy in your skin and learn to make the most of every opportunity that comes your way.

Helen signed up for the Strong Confident Rider Program in 2022 with the goals of:

I want to be a calm, capable and focused rider. I want to be courageous and responsive rather than timid and reactive.

• Change the pictures and narrative in my head!
• I want my body to feel strong and confident
• I want to develop a heartfelt connection with Wally, to ride with an awareness of how I’m using my body and how this affects Wally.
• I’d like to be able to think something and Wally would respond with minimal aids.

Helen smashed her goals within months of joining and has continued on to the SCR membership program where she is living her best life with Wally.

The most important step you can do right now is to take action. Life is too short to ‘do it tomorrow’. If you had done it yesterday, you’d be one step closer to becoming more confident. Taking action doesn’t need to be overwhelming.

Simply take the time today to decide the first step in your plan. How do you want to work on your confidence?

• If it’s the riding aspect, are you going to book some lessons with a schoolmaster?
• If it’s more about changing the way you view yourself, are you going to work with a confidence coach or have Hypnotherapy/NLP sessions?
• If is improving your mindset, health, well-being and riding, are you joining the Strong Confident Rider Program?

Whatever route is right for you. Don’t waste any more time worrying. Take action today and be one step closer. Just imagine where you could be in 6 months time.